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poeticfeminism

As someone with BPD who has a female psychiatrist: always ask for a female psychiatrist.

Male psychiatrists are happy to overdiagnose BPD in female patients, stick them on some medication, and tell them there is nothing more that can be done.

Female psychiatrists mostly look into more likely options (BPD is not as common as people think) and will be more willing to provide longer term, more extensive treatment options. Mine even informed me that the majority of BPD symptoms will be lessened when not in a relationship, something a male would never have done, as they have the belief that a woman’s goal in life should be relationship.

Men will not care about how this disorder affects you. All they care about is making you more palatable to other men: take medication so they don’t have to deal with your emotions, don’t externalise any fear of abandonment because that will make you seem jealous and crazy. They do not want to make you better, they want to make you marketable.

Tw for mentions of eating disorders below the cut.

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quinntheestallion

Heartbreaking: Catherine McKinnon wrote herself into circles trying not to be called a TERF.

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https://signsjournal.org/exploring-transgender-law-and-politics/

@friendlymathematician

I no longer have the energy to read these kinds scribes in full because it’s always more of the same: pretending to not know what feminism, pretending women are saying something we aren’t. It’s just so energy sucking.

Honestly, seeing “women” as a turf to be defended, as opposed to a set of imperatives and limitations to be criticized, challenged, changed.

Catherine Mckinnon I am not a set of imperatives. I am not a turf to be challenged or defended. I am a human being.I’m not territorial over the word woman, they can use any sound with their mouth to refer to me they want. But what sound will I use with my mouth to say that I am a alive, experiencing consciousness in a human body which is persecuted on the basis of being of the female sex.

there-are-4-lights

Victoria Smith wrote this article about how heartbreaking this is (she compares trying to define radical feminism without saying women are a sex class, to those creative writing exercises where you try not to use the letter “e” in a whole story):

That bit about “I am not a turf to be defended” is SO IMPORTANT and central to this whole thing. The way the right wing is starting to own this question, they absolutely DO talk about “woman” as an identity or turf to be defended. The Posie Parker rhetoric is full of this. So Catharine MacKinnon assuming the "terf" position is about defending the "woman identity", when a lot of us don't really care at all about the woman identity, we care about the material needs of women, is a huge problem.

Or as Jane Clare Jones said the other day:

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quinntheestallion

I’m so happy Victoria Smith called her out on this.

We’re fucking tired of being fed shit and being told it’s gold and if we can’t recognize it’s gold it’s because we don’t understand some super duper sophisticated analysis. Academia is filled with this and it’s worse than stupid now, it’s EVIL.

pothead-paisan

Fuck, I'm not even sure if i can bring myself to read this piece. So many of my intellectual and feminist/lesbian icons (including margaret atwood, judy blume, billie jean king, bell hooks, and now catherine mackinnon) have absolutely abandoned the courage of their convictions and all of their principles in recent years in order to spare themselves from the mob. 

Within the last five years or so, each one of the women I just mentioned has either a) flipped on her feminist principles after succeeding in a field that feminism helped them break into (cough cough billie jean king going all in on supporting and calling for MtF tennis players to compete in female tournaments after her own retirement, despite never having had to play against males herself) or b) gone out and made public statements that, at first, appeared to acknowledge the existence of women’s sex-based oppression or female people as a class, only to immediately do a 180 and walk back their commentary after receiving the tiniest amount of pushback. 

I think seeing what’s happened to JKR in the public square has really escalated a culture of fear among even very high-profile feminists and female writers, which of course is unfortunately the point. Especially how it’s not going away even years later, like this is proof positive that even when women express their opinions as kindly and diplomatically-stated as JKR did, it’s still a huge endless fucking deal and she’s still facing insane abuse and the seeming widespread societal conclusion that she’s an evil unmentionable bigot. While I can understand not wanting that to happen to you, I don’t see how that fear could ever justify betraying the entire body of feminist work you’ve crafted over nearly a lifetime in the field. 

fox-steward

i began reading mackinnon’s piece, but it’s so full of bad faith arguments and mischaracterization of feminism…it’s honestly embarrassing. i am embarrassed for her.

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she does not explain WHY one might think males who claim to be women would be welcomed. just states it like it’s common knowledge. i’m open to hearing her argument here but there is none.

it does not strike me as self evident that there is a certain subset of men that women would be happy to consider also women. it strikes me as thinly veiled homophobic rhetoric and actual biological essentialism—“leaving masculinity behind” as of being a woman/“embracing womanhood” requires leaving masculinity behind. embarrassing argument for mackinnon to be making here.

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she again needs to explain herself here. no radfem who knows anything about feminism conflates “female sex” with “feminine gender.” the accepted position of radical feminism is actually the exact opposite—women are female, not not necessarily feminine. there is no wrong way to “be” a woman; the word is not a carefully delineated category into or out of which movement is even possible, it is merely the linguistic extension of female that is specific to adult humans in the same way “kitten” describes a baby cat. my cat plays fetch and i sometimes jokingly call him “puppy cat” but it’s universally understood that he doesn’t belong at the dog park, right?

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“reverting,” as though this definition of woman is somehow regressive. this is a linguistic feint meant to make an emotional appeal and it’s again embarrassing for a smart academic to be making this and all her other arguments in this piece.

“defining women by biology” is NOT biological essential!! and i have to believe mackinnon knows this because…cmon this is undergrad level shit. which makes this a bad faith argument she should again be embarrassed by.

biological essentialism is ascribing a biological basis to behaviors/roles/preferences, like “women are naturally submissive” or “it’s nature for women to enjoy looking pretty;” mackinnon is not just wrong here, she’s lying.

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again with the “reduction” language. no radical feminist is saying women are nothing more than female bodies, just that a female body is the one and only requirement for being a woman, and then that woman can live whatever type of life she wants!

“qualities chosen so whatever is considered definitive if sex is not only physical but cannot be physically changed into.” i am so so so embarrassed for this grown woman who is an academic to really be making this argument—first that the definition of sex has been “chosen,” as though it was concocted rather than observed, then that the physical, corporeal locus of sex is somehow arbitrarily arrived at, that there is some other locus of sex into which one CAN change but the mean women have picked the rigid physical categories not because it best reflects the shared reality of women, but because it excludes men. embarrassing to make the argument that women have defined our entire existence as a reaction to men.

i couldn’t keep reading. so embarrassed for her and incredibly let down.

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headspace-hotel:
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Ok I don’t mean to be doing this too often but I literally just wrote a paper about this so I thought I would comment! The English translation is The...
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Thought this could fit in well here

priscilladyke

Ok I don’t mean to be doing this too often but I literally just wrote a paper about this so I thought I would comment! The English translation is The Cursed Woman but the original French is La Femme Damnée. “Femmes Damnées” was the title of a Baudelaire poem from his acclaimed 1857 book Fleurs du mal, which was known, among other things, to be a collection that famously dealt with the subject of lesbians. The poem tells the story of the desires and passionate love between two lesbians: Delphine and Hippolyte. As a result of this poem and of the book as a whole, the terms “fleurs du mal” and “femme damnée” became lesbian monikers of the turn of the century. Though some have deemed the term “damned women” to be accusatory of some moral dissonance, the poem it is derived from is actually quite sympathetic to the condition of lesbian love as it is a love which is unable to fully flourish in that time. Regardless, the translated title of Tassaert’s painting is misleading, as the original French is less accusatory and more identifying. The title is more accurately “the lesbian.”

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And she’s doing fine